The Power of Addition … by Subtraction!
By Stephen L Doherty
Sunday, August 4th, 2024
“Less is More.” –Ludwig Mies van der Rohe
I am fascinated by paradox. Paradox is defined as “something that is seemingly absurd or self-contradictory but that when investigated or explained may prove to be well founded or true.” One of my favorites, and simplest, is the basic premise that LESS can actually result in MORE. In a world that often equates success with accumulation—whether it’s possessions, tasks, or responsibilities—the concept of “addition by subtraction” can seem counterintuitive. Yet, this philosophy reveals a profound truth: sometimes, removing what no longer serves us makes room for what truly matters.
As I get older, I take some measure of solace in the power associated with that paradox – the pursuit of abundance – by deletion. A hot air balloon’s power of ascendancy lies in its ability to jettison ballast. In other words, less weight equals more power to fly. That same axiom applied to our lives, unloading ballast, has a commensurate impact on our ability to thrive and succeed!
While I have not yet formally adopted a “minimalist” lifestyle – I have found myself enthusiastically jettisoning excess ballast and baggage from my life in an attempt to declutter the homestretch. Consider your home or workspace. A cluttered environment can lead to stress and decreased productivity. By subtracting unnecessary items—those that don’t serve a purpose or bring joy—you create a more serene, focused environment. Marie Kondo’s method of decluttering, which emphasizes keeping only items that “spark joy,” is a practical application of this idea. The result is a more organized, peaceful space that better supports your daily life.
As satisfying as it’s been to shed the weight of the meaningless, the outlived, the worn, the redundant, or just the boring and irrelevant – nothing can compare with weeding out the gardens of relationships that no longer add anything meaningful or substantive to our lives. In relationships, the principle of “addition by subtraction” holds transformative potential.
Often, we find ourselves clinging to connections that no longer nurture our growth or well-being, whether due to history, obligation, or fear of loneliness. However, by letting go of relationships that drain our energy or stifle our happiness, we make space for healthier, more authentic interactions. This process of discernment allows us to focus on those who truly uplift and support us, fostering deeper, more meaningful connections. In doing so, we not only enrich our social circles but also gain a clearer understanding of ourselves and what we value in our relationships, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and harmonious life.
The concept of addition by subtraction emphasizes that less can indeed be more. It’s about making intentional choices to remove the excess and focus on what truly adds value. By letting go of what’s no longer serving you, you free up space—both physically and mentally—for new opportunities, deeper connections, and greater happiness.
In a world that often champions the hustle and the accumulation of more, remember that sometimes the most profound gains come from simply letting go. Embrace the power of addition by subtraction and watch how your life transforms for the better.
Abundance is a process of letting go;
that which is empty can receive. –Bryant H. McGill-
